Being congruent with your actions falls in line with following through and being committed to whatever action you choose to perform. People that start something and then stop because they psyched themselves out in some way are people who don't make it far in life. Being congruent with your actions means to speak your mind at all times and to say what you mean and mean what you say. This means to never lie, since to lie you are not being congruent with your actions, since your mind means one thing and your actions another. Let yourself always speak what is in your heart and what is on your mind. And when you have committed yourself to an act, then go through with it always. If your heart and mind are in balance and leading the body, your actions will in agreement and harmony with all parts of Self. People who show purpose in their actions are ones who achieve lasting success in all areas in life.